Clinging to God

Forged in Faith Newsletter:

When Life Falls Apart: Clinging to God Amidst Loss and Abandonment

Loss can leave a wound so deep it feels as though it might never heal. When the people who once stood by you turn their backs on you  or abandon you in your darkest hour, the sting of rejection can seep into your soul, leaving you questioning your worth, your purpose, and even your faith. If you’re in this place right now, feeling broken, alone and lost, know this: God sees you, loves you, and is with you.

The pain of loss and suffering, whether it’s the from rejection of others, the crumbling of relationships, or even the loss of who you once were, is never easy to bear. But this is where God calls us to cling to Him with everything we have. He is our rock, our refuge, our healer and the One who redeems even the most shattered pieces of our lives. He is our God of recompense and will fight our battles better than we can!

Submitting the Battle to God

The Bible reminds us that the battles we face are not ours to fight alone. In Exodus 14:14 (NKJV), we’re told, “The Lord will fight for you, and you shall hold your peace,” or “you need only to be still.”  When life feels like it’s falling apart and the weight of rejection and abandonment threatens to crush you, surrender it all to God. He is not only aware of your pain but actively working to bring you through it for His glory and purpose and for your good.

Submitting your battles to God means releasing control and trusting Him completely, even when it doesn’t make sense. It’s a daily act of surrender, praying, “Father God, I don’t understand why this is happening, but I trust that You do. Take this burden, this hurt of so much loss and loneliness  Lord Jesus, fight for me, protect me lead and guide me in Your perfect will.”

Staying Grounded in Jesus

When everything around you crumbles, staying grounded in Christ Jesus is crucial. Spend time in His Word, even when you don’t feel like it. Music is also a huge part of my healing, letting go of secular music and only listening to Christian music- in different genres, as long as you are praising and worshipping our Savior Jesus through the storms of this life, because praise is a weapon against the enemy and his tactics.  Scripture is our lifeline, reminding us of God’s promises and His unchanging and never ending love.

In Psalm 34:18, we’re told, “The Lord is near to those who have a broken heart, and saves those whom are crushed in spirit.” Even in your heartbreak, He is near, He promises to never leave you nor forsake you. Speak His Word over your life daily and allow His truth to anchor you deeper in Faith when everything else feels unstable.

Jesus Himself faced rejection and abandonment, even by those closest to Him. In Matthew 26:56, it says, “Then all the disciples forsook Him and fled.” Yet, He remained steadfast in His purpose, trusting the Father’s plan. You can do the same, knowing that your identity and worth are found not in others but in Christ.

Allowing God to Recreate You

Loss often leaves us feeling like we’ve lost ourselves, but God can use even this to reshape us into who He created us to be. 2 Corinthians 5:17 promises, “Therefore, if anyone is in Christ Jesus, he is a new creation; old things have passed away; behold, all things have become new.”

Submitting to God’s will in this process involves forgiveness—both for others and for yourself. Ask God to help you see yourself as He sees you: loved, cherished, and chosen. Forgiveness doesn’t mean excusing the pain others caused but releasing it to God so it no longer holds power over you or over your life.

Pray for God to help you love yourself as He loves you. Ephesians 2:10 reminds us, “For we are His workmanship, created in Christ Jesus for good works, which God prepared beforehand that we should walk in them.” You are His masterpiece, and He is restoring you, piece by piece, into the person He intended you to be. Submit yourselves wholly unto the Lord Jesus and be obedient to His leading, guidance and wisdom.

A Warfare Prayer for Healing and Restoration

Heavenly Father,

I come to You broken, wounded, and in need of Your healing touch. Lord Jesus, You see the depth of my pain, the sting of rejection and abandonment of others, and the weight of loss I carry and the depression and oppression that try to keep me in bondage. Heavenly Father,  I surrender it all to You, Lord Jesus, knowing that You are my refuge, my protector and strength. I release every hurt, every betrayal, and every broken promise into Your hands. Fight for me, Lord Jesus, and restore me according to Your perfect will.

Father God, I ask for Your forgiveness for the ways I’ve failed to trust You fully and for any bitterness or anger I’ve held onto. Help me to forgive those who have hurt me, just as You have forgiven me. Teach me Heavenly Father ~  to love myself as You love me and to see myself through Your eyes—as Your beloved child, fearfully and wonderfully made. 💝✝️🔥♥️🙏🏼♥️🔥🤲🏼🥹

Lord Jesus, I bind every attack of the enemy against my mind, my heart, my emotions, my thoughts, my soul and spirit, or my destiny, in the name of Jesus, I cover myself with the blood of Jesus and declare that no weapon formed against me shall prosper. Surround me with Your Holy Spirit and fill me with Your peace that surpasses all understanding. Lord Jesus, Help me to stay grounded in Your Word and obedient to Your leading and calling, even in this season of loss and suffering.

Thank You, Father God, for never leaving me nor forsaking me. Thank You for the new work You are doing in my life. I trust You to bring beauty from these ashes and to use my story for Your glory. In Jesus’ holy mighty name, I pray. Amen and Amen.

You Are Not Alone

Whatever you’re facing today, know that you are not alone. God is with you in the fire, shaping and refining you. Trust Him, cling to Him, and allow Him to bring healing and restoration to your heart, mind, emotions, soul and spirit. You are deeply loved, and your story is not over. 🙌🏼⚔️🩸🛡️💝✝️😇

Remember, I love you, you matter, and you were created to do hard things! 🤟🏼💝 Much love and God’s blessings. ✝️🔥♥️🙏🏼♥️🔥

In His Grace and Mercy ~

Your sister in Christ Jesus,

Jeannie Walker,

Owner and Founder of Forged in Faith Ministries©️